Child custody in South Africa
In South Africa the mother has parental responsibility automatically and the father has it if he was married to her or meets the conditions in the Children's Act; the court decides by the child's best interests.
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If the parents are married
Both parents have full parental responsibilities and rights, and keep them after divorce.
If the parents are not married
The mother has them automatically. The father has them if he was married to the mother, or if he lived with her in a permanent life partnership when the child was born, or if he acknowledges paternity and contributes to the child's upbringing and maintenance for a reasonable period.
The unmarried father, in one line: The mother has it; the father needs a step: a joint declaration, registration, agreement, or living with the mother at the birth.
After a divorce or separation
Parents are encouraged to agree a parenting plan, and the court can also decide. The child's best interests are the paramount consideration, and both parents' responsibilities continue after divorce unless a court limits them.
What the child can say
The child must be given an opportunity to take part in decisions that affect them, appropriate to their age, maturity and stage of development.
Moving house or moving abroad with the child
A parent with parental responsibilities needs the other's consent, or a court's, to move the child abroad.
If the parents live in different countries
South Africa is a party to the 1980 Hague Child Abduction Convention, which lets a parent ask for a child wrongly taken to another country to be returned. It works only with countries that have accepted its accession, so check the other country on the treaty status table.
Understand the legal system first
South Africa belongs to the Mixed: civil and common law family. Family law grows out of the legal tradition, so it helps to know how the system works.
Read the South Africa legal-system profile in the Legal Families Atlas →
Who owns what in a marriage in South Africa? →
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